The Ex
Well what does Ex means? Something that has past , expired, ??? HAHAHA! Well many people used this to describe a person which they used to be in a relationship in. in the past.
Relationships: A thing that bonds two people together *normal healthy relationship* . Both sides tries so hard to compel their relationship into a perfect one. But, what they actually do? Buy present for each other, making each other smile everyday, and stood up for each other when oppo. needs help. Every single things a couple do , is to make sure they actually last and stay happily after all. However, once one of them stops trying... That's it, that;s the end of every single thing they did for each other. That's when the word EX starts to step in.
Some, accept the break, but some insist to hold on. Those who accept the facts, MOVE ON.. Those who does not, hell... NIGHTMARE. It will definitely affect the opposite , he/she that is in a relationship in. This is true. This is the nature of human mankind , no one wants to see their loves one;s get hooked up by other guy or girls.
Eventually, one will start to ignore each other and at the end, strangers.
Well. There's a pros and cons of this.:
Pros. You get to live happily without any disturbance/distractions with the one you love now.
Cons. You lose a friend that is past mean so much to you before. and had become someone you used to know.
Many people is different, some says they can be back friends after they break up. Eventually , they did keep in touch with each other. Well, this is a good thing. But when one are in a new relationship, keeping in touch with the EX. Seems impossible. If possible, it will definitely affect the current relationship and sometimes, it will unintentionally hurt the partner until the extend that the partner will thinks , she/ he is still holding a feelings with the EX. Which is a bad thing.
Just one statements says it all. "Don't try to have too many Ex's, You're just ruining your Life. Stand for something, if not you will eventually fall for anything.
Peace...